Monday, December 4, 2006

True love or Positive love??

Love has been always a frequent debatable topic among youngsters, and many has given different definitions about love or so called " true love ". Let me put it this way , " true love " is happened to both individuals whom no matter what consequences they will face will never alter their desire of feeling please to bond together. True love doesn't take into consideration of where you are from , who you are , how you look or what reason for individual to live , as long as they have the desire to stick together , that will consider as true love . While positive love is the love of individuals who foresee there future. Positive love couples have to share common goals of life and strike to get what they both wish to get or at least their wishes are similar . They prioritize their life's goal at the top list more than anything else. How would you decide? if you are given 2 options ; first , to stay with your beloved one but that will not achieve what you wish to get in life ; second, you will achieve your goals in life but stay with someone that your love is not as strong as your dreamt one.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

There exists no true love in my point of view, it is just a temptation. Oncw you feel the love for someone in that point in time you completely believe that it is your true love because both of you love each other. There is always possiblity for a person to have love more than one love( this is true..)

Anonymous said...

i think there is no ppl who is perfect...so..if i love someone, even he doesnt look like person in my dream,i will accept all his mistakes... is it called true love?..so, if u fall in love, which one u will choose and ur love is true love or positive love?

Anonymous said...

i think most ppl dun hav true love but positive love... i believe the most important thing in ppl life shuoldn't b just only love as both wil get bored with each when they get old ....

Anonymous said...

true love can happen many times in life... once you feel the love for someone ... that is the true love for u at that moment....

Khemara Phoumirak​ ខេមរា ភូមិរក្ស said...

i like reading this topic, yet i never understand it haha... so blurred. gotta close my eyes.

Absoluteme said...

Personally i wil take positive love though true love is one of the most part in life but i belive true love happen only the moment u feel u really like .... harly i see true love happen continuously until the end of one's life only in tv is possible

Anonymous said...

Oh dear Darith I was browsing your blog when I saw this post! It's in fact something driving me crazy for the last 2 months. I really can't tell the answer. I don't know what I should do. Maybe the solution is, just wait and see, as we grow and become more mature, we'll see what is more important to us. Perhaps then it'll be easier to make a choice. It's very very difficult to choose, yourself or your love? I'm stuck, really really stuck now :(

Anonymous said...

True Love really exists in some Western developed countries as ppl in these countries have enough basic needs including health care and adequate retirement salary for their lives. Unlike some societies that couldn't gurantee ppl's basic need and health, many ppl choose Positive Love.

To think deeply, if one has enough to support one own life, why doesn't he or she need True Love???

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